Right. So the topic I thought of is the 10 reasons why jw deserves the Best Hubby Award (at least, to me). Keke. Because I love this picture we took in LA! Best Hubby Academy Award goes to him, and Best Wife to me (yeah, bu yao lian, can't I just use it for photo-taking? Keke.) Well, it's been nearly half a year since we got married, nearly 66 months of being a couple, and 6.5 years of knowing each other. Wahhh. Saying it that way makes me feel like lao fu lao qi somehow.

1) He loves me unconditionally.

Never asking me to change into someone else whom I'm not. Well, sometimes he complains that I need to work on my tummy and train out some 6-pac abs. Which I can never accomplish. But that's all. =) Keke. So I believe even if I become huang lian po, or grow into a fat auntie, or have pimples all over my face, he will still love me. Keke.

Like giving names to our stuff toys at home, like calling each other names like 'Xiao Bae and Xiao Bee', 'Xiao Wang Zi and Xiao Gong Zhu', 'Xiao Wei Wei and Xiao Shuang Shuang' etc. Well. I can be lame enough to even think of cheers for us, couple cheers! And he's sweet enough to sometimes say them with me. Waha. I mean, I don't think every guy can do that, or is willing to do that.


3) He cooks for me.

So it's not a case of wife cooking and husband waiting for food to come. We would cook together when we can, or sometimes take turns depending on who wakes up first. I always think it's very xing fu to have a guy cook for you. And like I mentioned before, a guy possesses the most charm, to me, when he is i) playing the piano or ii) cooking in the kitchen. =) Well, I think jw can play one song on the piano, so it's not bad too!

Probably because in the first place, he's an easy-going person with not much temper at all to everyone around him. You don't see him scolding people much, not his family, not me. But yes, I am still able to make him extremely agitated sometimes when we quarrel. HAHA. But he cools off easily and always tries to hong me. Which I do appreciate.

I love it that he's so nice to everyone, even people he don't know. So that makes him a wonderful person! He will carry luggage for others when he sees them in difficulty when we are overseas, he will give tips to every waitress even if we are broke, he will try to help people find direction even though he's new in town too, he will make sure everyone has enough food before he fills up his own plate etc. Well. Plain nice! Makes me abit shameful of myself sometimes, because though I don't think I'm a bad person, I doubt I can be that good too.

That makes him a super filial son. And he loves my family too! Hee. And it's amazing to me how our parents can get along so pretty well. My mum just jioed his parents to KTV on New Year's Day and four of them went together! His parents will give a bottle of DOM wine to my brother and da-sao after Rena was born. I like it that way. =) Families that bond. And he's a nice son which makes me quite confident he will be a nice father next time too.

7) He is good at playing games.

Haha. A fortune teller once told me that because I am smart and capable, I need a husband who is even better and smarter than me. Well, I can't say I agree totally with the former, but the latter is quite true. I like the fact that he can play games well, be it wii fit games, poker games, maths games, drinking games, board games and it's always a challenge for us to try to outwin the other. I mean, it would be boring if my husband doesn't know or like to play all these things. =) So maybe, that's partly why we fit each other. HAHA.

Well, I guess no one is perfectly honest or has never even told a white lie, but I believe jw is one of the most down-to-earth, honest people around and I guess that makes him rank the top of my list. =) We slowly built up our relationship because it didn't start off so well at the very beginning, but the honest him gradually earned my trust and I still do strongly believe that he doesn't lie to me. =) Women have strong sense of intuition, don't they?

Well, maybe all husbands are able to do that. But still, I think it means something to me and he deserves credit for it. Keke. Small gestures sometimes mean alot. Little things he does like write on our whiteboard in the corridor, send me SMSes out of the blue, make me a happy girl. He says I'm easily contented. Well. Zhi zu chang le, right? =p

Sporty, fun-loving, faithful, amusing, cheerful, likes-to-nua, wonderful hubby. =) Just the perfect person for me. I guess. Waha. =p

So dear, though I think we will never stop arguing from time to time because we are both stubborn children and differences do exist in men and women, I just still think I am loving you more day by day and I hope you feel my love for you! =)

Once, I was asked the question of whether 'I love jw more, or jw loves me more'. Somehow, my first instinct said 'jw loves me more', because he had said before we will never be apart unless I initiate it, so somehow i just blurted it out. But now, reconsidering our married life so far, I think we both love each other alot and love is something you can't compare nor measure. All I know is that I can't live without my hubby!!~ Waha.

End of my post for now. =) Till more thoughts flow into my little mind. Tata!!