I realise recently, that so many people out there do not believe there's such a thing called true love in this world..

"Love, can be bought with money..."

"There's never 'The one', but there will be someone out there who happens to be at the right time at the right place. & you get married and spend the rest of your lives together. Because nobody wants to be lonely..."

"All the things about true love are fake. Especially in Singapore, where we live in such a realistic society. We are the 'products' of Singapore."

"I asked my colleague why she married her rich husband. She replied, 'Do you want to live in a HDB and take public transport all your life?'..."

"There's no more such thing as sheng xi xiang xu.."

"You can never like one person only for the rest of your life..."

It's so depressing. Whatever happened to all the goodness and richness of love that should be spread around and be felt by every living thing in this world? When did it become such a superficial, worthless entity that is so easily na de qi fang de xia (ie. forgotten once it's past)? Why do people sell away their lives, their bodies to someone they dun love for the pure sake of money? Love should be something much more deeper than that. It is so pure, so rich, and I never do like to hear it being degraded to something more like a product or toy than anything else.

At least, I will believe in "The One". There is!!! You don't marry out of desperation, or out of tired of waiting, or out of simply wanting a companion for life. You marry becos you LOVE that person whom you put the wedding band on, you marry becos you wanna give him all that you can give and make him the happiest man alive, you marry becos you know he will give you the life you deserve, you marry because you wanna have kids and a family together, you marry because you WANT to, not becos you need to. I just wish people out there have more faith in love. I just wish, that love can manifest itself and grow in all our hearts.

I don't like to hear all the depressing thoughts. Because I know that it ain't true. Some may think I'm naive, creating a perfect vision of true love which doesn't exist in real life, and creating a fairytale shell when there's no such thing as fairytale love in this world. I'm not trying to hide behind any cover or mask and creating a superficial front for ourselves just to make people believe we are a wonderful couple. This is really how I see our love journey. That junwei and I are meant for each other, that we are going to live happily ever after, and we will show to the world that there is such a thing called "The One". Becos other than him, I really don't think there will be anyone else who will love me as much, or anyone else whom I can imagine walking down the aisle with. Absolutely no one else.

I just hope I am right, decades down the road.. I don't wanna look back on this blog entry and realised how silly and gullible I was.. I don't wanna be one of those who regretted her choice.. & I will never let anyone make me see my cup as half empty instead of half full..

Hope everyone out dere had a great Vday and Friendship Day. =) Love prevails. & it is out there for us to reach and hold onto so long as we try hard..