Tuesday, January 08, 2008

Couple time..

It felt great to be side by side wif jw once again. Being apart for 8 months (well, except for our Europa trip), sometimes it feels that things have changed, sometimes it feels that nothing had changed at all. You know wad I mean? The first few days he was here, we quarrelled and executed cold wars like nobody’s business. Haha. Silly arguments, trivial causes, foolish acts, insensitive behaviour. Jw will definitely say I’m the 100% cause of it. But as gals always say, there’s no smoke without fire and for her to react in such a way, the guy must have done smtg to upset her. Waha. But let’s not go into the Mars and Venus debate now. (which I must admit is a good book and we ought to give it a read. Even if you are like jw who doesn’t believe that a book helps in anything, you should still give it a try. =p)

However, I must admit that I feel I’m a total idiot sometimes. Can’t control my emotions, can’t control my behaviour, can’t control my mind. Sigh. Need to work harder on that. Though sometimes I do think life will be boring without the bickers to spice it up. Some may think I’m nuts, but I do think it’s true. Like what I told jw, the couples who often quarrel and fight are actually the ones who love each other most and they often last a lifetime. Those couples who seem too perfect for each other, well, eventually their smooth love journey becomes bland, flat and monotonous and they stay together for the sake of staying together. Hmm. ABSURD theory rite? I dunnoe. I believe in it. Haha.

Rite. Enuff of my theories. Back to us, we spent a good two weeks together after we recovered from all the ‘battles’. Here’s us at Vivo wif the gigantic X’mas tree. We are quite good at zi pai (aka taking pictures of yourself), or rather, jw is better at it than me lar. Heehee. We took tonnes of pictures at Eiffel like this. Damn pretty lar. Hehe. Well, this pic is also quite nice too rite? Hee. Muz be contented!!

Guess which is my hand and which is jw’s? Waha. We cracked our brains together to come up with the chorus for our wedding song. And Ta-dah. He came up wif the melody and I wrote the lyrics. =) Yippie yay. It’s a reallie simple melody and simple words. But it contains our sincerity and our love. Woohoo. Although there’s now a high chance that we will scrape the wedding song due to budget problems, I still feel happie that we at least wrote smtg that belongs to us. (errmm, any of you can play musical instruments or do the music arrangement for us? It will cost us at least $2K to outsource. *shakes head*) I suggested for my jie meis to sing acapella. HAHAHA.

We miss wearing our couple shirts. Jw actually went to dig out all the couple shirts when he got home. Wahaha. I guess we had like nearly 10 already!! Ain’t often that a guy dun mind and actually likes to wear couple shirts. So, I quite applaud him for that. Hee. *pats jw’s shoulder* Oh, but that’s not half as loud as how much I applaud him for finally kicking away the nicotine in his life. Oh yeah! HE DID IT. We are on our way to a smoke-free home and family. I guess it’s one of his biggest achievements so far bah. I dunnoe. It juz makes all of us so proud of him. That he finally kept his promise. His parents muz be even more delighted than I am.

We bought this to play wif. Wahaha. I think I insisted on it. Looks fun wad. 7 mini sports, including table soccer, pool, bball, bowling etc. Really mini. The cue looks like a chopstick lor. Keke. But we had a fun one hour exploring it and playing table soccer and pool. =) As expected, I lost at both lor. But I had fun!~


Our trip to the zoo was also immensely enjoyable. I think it was fun having his parents, xuanxuan and yuheng with us rather than the two of us alone. I still remember our first trip to the zoo, during my second year, when I was doing my CS202 Visual communication project. We even took an expensive photo wif ah meng’s cousin, Anita. Keke. Dat was fun. Gosh, that was over 4 years ago. How time flies. Thinking bout it, it really makes me feel that it’s not easy for us to have walked this far, and trust me, I’m gg to cherish it. I know jw will too. True love ain’t easy to find in this world. So glad I did.